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Natalia Lusinski

Aside from Bustle, Natalia writes for HelloGiggles, Simplemost, and The Delite. You can also find more of her writing and personal essays in places such as the L.A. Times, the Chicago Tribune's RedEye, xoJane, Elite Daily, Scary Mommy, Elephant Journal, and Chicken Soup for the Soul anthologies. She has a...


What Nobody Tells You About Moving In Together

At some point, you may decide to live with your significant other. Some experts think it should be avoided altogether if your goal is to get married, while others think moving in together is a good idea — and the one way to really get to know someone...


What I Learned From Being On The TV Show ‘Blind Date’, Because Dating Is A lot Different When Thought Bubbles Are Involved

We all go on blind dates, but not all of us go on Blind Date, the TV show. You know, the one with the thought bubbles above daters’ heads. When I was in my twenties, I went on the show; I thought that I’d first be a guest on it, then...


8 Benefits Of Being Single During The Holidays

‘Tis the season to be single! And actually, being single over the holidays is trendy, too, says a study of Facebook profiles that found two weeks before Christmas is the most popular time of year that people break up. A few years ago, a friend of min...


The One Word To Stop Using On Dating Apps

While there are plenty of articles out there on what to say to someone in an opening message online, when it comes down to what not...


Crying At Work Helped Me Get Over My Breakup, Because Sometimes A Temp Job Is Better Than A Pint Of Ice Cream

Last spring, I was heartbroken beyond belief and should have gotten stock in Ben & Jerry's (especially Chocolate Fudge Brownie). I didn't want to leave my room, let alone my house — the same place The Ex had lived with me — though getting out of...


11 Benefits Of Using Dating Apps Vs. Dating Sites, Because Efficiency Is Key

If you've been single within the last couple of years, I’m sure you’ve used a dating app or two (or ten), as well as online dating sites via your computer. Hands down or fingers down, I should say — there are more benefits to using dating apps versus...


What It Means If You & Your Partner Have Incompatible Signs

You and a new love interest seem to have a ton in common: similar hobbies, values, and even a shared love of obscure documentaries. Until you have your first conflict and wonder if your signs are compatible. A friend says your astrological signs don’...


Why I Never Google Stalk My Dates (Or Give Them My Real Email Address), Because Mystery Is Better Than History

In this cyberstalk-able age, I don't Google stalk my dates in advance. Whether I met the guy through friends, at a party, or online, I prefer getting to know him as the actual person sitting across from me versus whom I read about on my laptop via an...


How To Make Sure Your Birth Control Pills Will Be As Effective As Possible

Over 100 women from 28 states are suing Qualitest Pharmaceuticals after claiming that they became pregnant while on the Pill, reports ABC News. I know, how does that happen?! Well, according to the court documents, the women are saying their pills we...


8 Things Nobody Told You About Lube

You may hear about how lube is good for your sex life, see it on store shelves, and use it… but do you know what, exactly, you’re putting on — and in — your body? Have you only used water-based ones, not silicone? Or vice-versa? What about flavored o...


13 Key Tests For A Relationship, Because If You Can’t Put Up A Tent Together, You May Be In Trouble

Your relationship with your significant other is constantly being tested, and it’s all about how you overcome little — and big — hurdles. There’s an endless number of issues that can come up: money (who pays what?), traveling together (have every min...


9 Little Things Your Partner Does That Make You Even Happier

Having had my share of long-term relationships — and even short-term — I feel I know what has worked, so to speak, in terms of the little things that make your partner happy. Whether it was gestures my S.O. made, or things I did for him, it often did...


Tinder Adds Spotify Integration, Because Why Not Bond Over Musical Tastes?

Now, instead of just having Facebook friends and interests in common on Tinder, you can have music in common, too. Yep, Tinder’s new Spotify feature began rolling out. It’ll then expand to the 59 markets where Spotify’s available. You can bond over e...


Am I Ready For A New Relationship? 6 Signs It's Time To Start Dating Again

How do you know if you're ready for a new relationship? Is there a manual someplace that can tell us? Can our friends or family? Or will we just wake up one morning and know it’s time? “This wildly varies from person to person,” said psychologis...